matcha, I'm sorry if I sounded condescending. That certainly wasn't my intent. I was just puzzled. None of my buddies reported s/x like yours, so I was surprised. Of course your reactions are "valid" . . . they're what you felt. Valium sedated me, and it took a while for me to feel those effects. Clearly it didn't do the same for you. I'm sorry.
Hope you feel better.
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