After seeing [...] and Colin fight again (

) and [...] telling me I was doing something wrong, I have to ask for some confirmation

So, at first I started this microtaper with Milk, but that didn't work. Apparently I dissolved everything wrong. I switched back to the Vodka method (which I also only had been using for a few days, I switch to milk because I didn't want to use alcohol).
So I'm using taperingstrips, but the 0,1 mg reductions are hitting me too hard.
So I'm doing this:
I have Valium pills of 2 mg, 1 mg, 0,5 mg, 0,2 mg and 0,1 mg.
I am now at 3,3 mg.
I crush 0,1 mg.
Add 1 ml Vodka. Wait a minute for the crushed pill to dissolve, then add 49 ml water.
I stir it with a spoon.
Take out 5 ml, so I have 45 ml. Drink that, and then take the other 3,2 mg.
So my question:
Am I doing anything wrong at any point in this process? Everybody is welcome is this argument, I need to see everybody's point of view

I didn't know there were people here against microtapering. Is microtapering safe? Why are [...] and colin arguing about it? What are the risks?
Maybe I understood some things wrong with that whole discussion, but my focus is very very very bad. Hopefully somebody can shed some light on things.